In Today's Hart Headlines

Why do people say one thing then do another?
Why do women treat men like shit but then expect the men to be wonderful to them?
Why can men sleep around but if a woman does it, she’s a whore?
Why do kids think they know everything?
Why is it that you find a perfect person and then you find out they are either married, gay, are a felon, or on drugs?
Why are the nicest people treated like crap?
Why is it that when we are talking about an overweight person we say they have a nice personality?
Why do blondes have more fun?
Why can you never find a GREAT pair of jeans for every shape and size?
Why did someone develop something to help people and then make it so expensive that nobody but the top 10% of the population can afford it?
Why is it that 20 years ago, nobody admitted being gay but today, they flaunt it?
Why can’t people today keep their marriage alive like our parents generation?
Why do we think television with a laugh track is entertainment?
Why can’t builders build things like they did 30 years ago?
Why do people need such large living spaces just to live by themselves?
Why do some people seem to have not discovered deodorant?
Why do we have to keep in contact with everyone we have met on websites like Facebook?
Why do doctors make you come to see them even if it’s something like refilling a monthly prescription after one month?
Why are there fast food restaurants on every corner when it’s proven that it’s bad for you?
why do we get depressed over the smallest thing, like spending time alone?
Why are there people on disability that are not disabled? Don’t they get checked on?
Why do people who are trying to be a better person after being in prison have a harder time than others who should be in prison?

Why ask why? Does it really ever get answered?
Some of these I’m sure you can answer and feel free to do so. Also feel free to ask other why questions!

Over the past 5 years, here’s my man list.
The personal trainer - I have never felt more flexible and in shape. He got a chic pregnant while we were dating and married her, there goes that one.
The retail guy - very nice guy, we are still friends, but I ended that one after I sat and watched him not even sponge bathe during a 3 day blackout.
The druggie - meth head. Enough said, I could write a book about this crazy one.
The body builder - found out I was “the other woman”, bye bye!
The Canadian set builder - well, couldn’t last since I was only in Canada for 2 weeks but it was fun!
The felon - friends for 2 years before we got together, he ended up going back to prison for not updating his address with parole a week after we decided to date.
The mechanical engineer - now him I miss. Other than the fact that he feels like if he falls for someone, something bad will happen to them, he was great. We had a lot in common, same friends, and could be together in any situation without issues. He stopped talking to me when I was moving, guess he’s a goner too.
All and all, I may not look perfect but have had my fair share of HOT men. So why am I still single? Why do I wish I could still be with my sons father even though he’s a cheater? I block men that just want sex, I’m not out looking for someone. I’m just trusting in God to bring me the right one. I don’t like the bar scene and I know most of the men at church, I grew up with most of them. I don’t online date after meeting some HUGE weirdos either.
I’m just going to hang out and raise a better man than the ones I’ve found.
Your opinions are welcome, not that I will do anything but I promise I will read them.

I spent Saturday feeling kind of down, the weather was bad and it was just a crappy kind of day. I cancelled my babysitter and decided I was going to stay at home. About 6, my sitter shows up anyway. I was sitting outside talking to her and my neighbor walks up crying. Since she still insists on seeing the guy that makes her cry, I asked the sitter to stay and asked my neighbor if she wanted to have a drink for her woes. She said yes so we took off. I wanted her to laugh so I did a drive by of an ex of mine and it did make her laugh. She asked to go to the neighborhood bar so we went there. Without saying a word to me, she text her boyfriend and told him where we were. About 10 minutes later, he walks in with his brother. I knew them both in high school and had no idea they were brothers!
The brother and I start talking and get caught up on the past 20 years. We got totally wasted. The guy asks me if he can go home with me to let my neighbor and her boyfriend go to his place so he gave my neighbor his car keys and we went back to my house. He’s HOT. Has pecs and arm muscles like The Rock. I got to know every part of him for hours Saturday night/Sunday morning. Did I mention how drunk I was? We passed out after. He woke me at 6 saying he wanted to leave before my son woke up which was fine with me. After he made me promise to text him, he showered and left.
I woke up about 3 hours later with a major hangover. My neighbor came home and called me asking if I wanted to go to brunch with her and her boyfriend. I couldn’t but met her outside to smoke before they went. So her boyfriend asks me what happened with me and his brother the night before because his brother showed up at his house asking for his keys around 7am. I wouldn’t tell him. Then he mentions that his brother is married. WHAT??? OMG, I was in shock! I don’t do that kind of stuff! I’m so glad I haven’t heard from him. Then my neighbor texts me last night and says she’s going to have the 4 of us go out again, I don’t know if I can. He was great but no, I refuse to ruin a marriage! I don’t think he will anyway, I hope he feels bad for cheating but maybe he does that kind of thing often. Who knows!
So the other thing that happened. The ex that I did the drive by on? I had sent him a message on facebook about a week ago just saying that I had been thinking about him. He told me that he had a heart attack a week after he broke up with me. Do you have any clue how badly I wanted to say, “See what happens when you mess with a good thing?” He and I had been together for a year and a half but when I was going to move to Colorado, he just stopped talking to me. So now he’s talking to me again because I’m not moving. I loved him so I would be happy to be back with him. I don’t know if anything will come out of this but I will find out!
So yesterday I was depressed because of all the revelations and was happy to go back to work today. I promised my son we would go shoot fireworks Tuesday evening for the 4th of July but since they are illegal within city limits I need a place to go!
Have a great short work week!

So it’s the day after my birthday. I was hanging outside with the neighbors. One of them decided to quit smoking and comes outside with this really long e-cig. Another neighbor looks at it and says, “What are you compensating for?” hehehe!!!
my other neighbor was complaining about her on again off again boyfriend. All I ever hear is how they are fighting, but they keep going out! I would have dumped his sorry ass the first time and moved on. I believe some people are either gluttons for punishment or don’t think they can find anyone better. I have news for this chick, there are WAY better men out there! You are not married so why put up with the crap? But, I’ve told her this too many times before so now I keep my mouth shut. She’s older than me, why hasn’t she learned this yet?
Now I’m getting texts from my friend who has decided to move in with her boyfriend who doesn’t work and sits around playing computer games. The guy is huge, won’t get a haircut (not even to put some form of shape to his mop), and doesn’t even drive! I really can’t say anything though. My boyfriend is in jail (not going to be a boyfriend anymore though). My last one felt like he needed 3 women, and the one before that was a druggie. But you see, I’m not with them anymore! I’m looking for someone better! At least with more sense!
I’m raising my child, I work full time, have paid off my car too. I know that I’m fine whether with someone or not. That’s my point, you don’t have to be with someone just to be with them. You need someone to make you feel whole and complete. Maybe I’ll find that person or maybe I’ll just have fun trying to find that person. Doesn’t matter!
On a different topic! I’m going tomorrow to look at more places to live in my new town. I have to be moved before school starts so I’m getting close to needing to move! I’m excited about moving. I love my job but hate my commute every day. Nobody should have to drive 45 minutes on the worst freeway in town to get to work! Wish me luck on apartment hunting!

Howdy from the WAY too hot state of Texas! I was supposed to be getting ready to move to Colorado this week but things happen for a reason, right? I am going to end up moving about an hour from where I am now in August.
So tomorrow is my special day and today is my bud Michael’s! We are heading to a comedy club tonight to watch one of our neighbors attempt to win a contest and maybe become a star! Should be fun, at least I get a night off from Mommy duties.
Tomorrow I will be working on my birthday but such is life. My son said he’s making me something, isn’t that sweet? Will have to take a pic and post it. He made me a tile for Mothers Day, he had drawn us and our dog on it, so cute! He’s growing up so fast, I can’t believe he’s already 7!
I’m almost out of time but wanted to say HI to my friends on Tumblr!
Have a great week!

So today is a good day. Got extra money from work, guy I’ve been seeing is back to being himself and not all gushy on me, talked to my parents, and doing really well with Weight Watchers. I hope everyone else is doing just as well.
Have a great rest of the week and weekend!

It’s raining in Texas! I almost had to swim to my car at lunch. Fun, fun!

Today is my Dad’s birthday. He’s 70!

I guess I forgot to mention that I dyed my hair brown too. Most people want to dye theirs blond but me, no, I had to go the opposite direction!

Weight Watchers is good, I have lost 10 pounds already in 3 weeks so I’m happy and still going on it.

This office is BUSY, I mean CRAZY busy! I barely have time to think, let alone get on and update everybody on what’s going on.

OMG, I heard gas prices are supposed to go up to $5.00 a gallon this summer…WTF??? That’s almost twice what it is now and I’m driving on my vacation 1000 miles. What am I gonna do???

Anyway, I love my Dad…he’s the best Dad I could have been given.

HUGS!

So it’s a few days into the new year.

I started working at a different place for the same company and I am pretty happy here so far. It’s only the 2nd day, so we will see!

Started weight watchers too. I was so ready! I cut my hair into a new style (OMG I have bangs - first time since high school). So, I feel like I really started a new me this year. New place to work, new hair, new eating lifestyle. I now need to work on getting my son on board with the mornings…I hate arguing with him every morning!

So back to work, this is a busy office! Have a great 2012, mine is starting off well…let’s just pray it continues!

Christmas went well. My son got everything he asked for and more. My parents came over for breakfast (quiche from La Madeleine’s) and my son’s father came by to bring him more gifts. I had 4 trash bags after all was taken out and put together, mostly Lego boxes!

I had a talk with a male friend of mine who agreed to be my son’s role model and do things with him so he feels like he has a “man” that he can go to. So that may end up helping me out a bit, hopefully. I don’t have a lot of faith in some men and I didn’t realize it was pouring out to my son. I hope this helps!

I’m back at work (anyone notice I blog at work?) Hopefully it will be a good week. One good thing is that it is a 3 day work week! Yea!

I’m tired today and already had my lunch as I’m working the early shift (fine with me). I’m just thinking about stuff I could be doing at home, like usual! My son is happy and content with everything - he got to go to my parent’s house today before daycare so Spongebob was his morning. LOL

I look forward to bedtime and Thursday at 6pm when I’m off for 4 days! Woo hoo! What will it be like to go back to 5 day work weeks? Eeek!

What did you do for the holiday?

WTH??? I’m racist??? HUH??? I sent a funny email to 4 people that I know have a sense of humor and one of them goes off and says I’m racist! It was a Christmas card that had a couple on jail telephones smiling and having their Christmas picture taken. They could have been white, black, asian, hispanic, muslim, ANYTHING! It was a joke girl, get over it!

What has come over the people in our country that we can’t take a joke?

It’s 4 days until Christmas is here.

I am at work and don’t want to be (of course who does at this time of year).

Now, I’m in a crappy mood and don’t give a darn anymore. Thanks girl… way to go!

5 days left…I’m ready, are you?

My child lied to me this morning, straight to my face! So I told him that I don’t trust him and I don’t trust liars. He cried. Hope it helps teach him not to lie…I can’t stand that and don’t want to have a relationship like that with him.

I’m at work, only have Monday off for the holiday which is fine. I wish I could be at home with my son but I have to work so what can I do? At least we are not very busy!

So, I am now working on my vacation in June. Well, I have nothing else to do! I would rather be all the way planned and ready than not. I want my friend to come with me but to pick her up would cost more (she lives WAY out of the way) but it would be so nice to spend time with her! I hope she can come up with the money to go!

I’m just tired today and cranky but o well! It’s Tuesday and Christmas is only 5 days away. I’m now ready for it to be over! Have a good one.

Today is interesting so far!

A guy I used to see text me and wants to see me again. I ran him off by telling him that I would need to be with someone who only wants to be with me and is willing to be around. What a loser! So why does he keep talking?

Work is not too bad today. I am at an office FAR from home but I enjoy it out here. I’m in the middle of nowhere and enjoy it!

I have to go to the main office tomorrow but that’s okay because I have popcorn to drop off to one of my coworkers.

Last night went pretty well. My son got his first badge so he’s happy. Tonight is basketball practice (I will be late but nothing I can do there). I’m ready to go back to bed! LOL

13 days until Christmas morning and your kids screaming while they rip paper and fling it everywhere! :)

This past weekend:

1. Picked up popcorn from Cub Scout hut.

2. Delivered said popcorn to all who ordered it (over $700 dollars worth).

3. Skipped son’s basketball game.

4. Fought with son over basketball game and other stuff.

5. Loved and cuddled with son.

6. Realized that he is the only important thing to me.

This week:

Today: Cub scout meeting

Tomorrow: Basketball practice

Wednesday: School holiday party

Thursday: Cub Scout Holiday party

Friday: Last day of school, no work for me but I have to be helping at the school

Saturday: Basketball game

Sunday: Clean and cook for the next week and start all over again.

Anybody want to help? I have NO time to relax. I leave my house at 7am and will not get home each night until 7pm. Poor dog too. Can’t walk the dog when I’m not around!

I’m just working every day and doing the single mom thing. My life ya know!

Have a good week!

stephenking-quotes:

The Gunslinger —- Stephen King

Thank God it’s Friday!

Not much to report. I am looking forward to my VERY busy weekend and to spend time with my son.

Have a good one!

Yep, I did it again. I made a mistake. Instead of being glad I caught it and apologized for it, I get yelled at. Again. Geez